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Clubbing it

I am sorry that you haven't heard from me for days. This is because absolutely NOTHING happened in my life for about 2 days. NO phone calls, no dates: just life at the grindstone. For those people who think that the single life is all glitz and unattached glamor, so ...

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Bikram Yoga

So last night I went to do Bikram Yoga. How did I get roped into it? I asked my ex to join me for a Zumba class (it was bring a guy, get in free day). He convinced me that Bikram Yoga was MUCH better because it's maximum calorie burn ...

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Closure

Well, Ladies and Gentlemen, the dam finally broke. I was so consumed with my fantasies that Lex was missing me as much as I was missing him, and with the hopes that he would realize the error of his ways, that I decided to contact him.  I know, I know... ...

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Great Friendships

I am feeling extraordinarily happy right now. I had the most wonderful evening, and was reminded of the importance of great friends. My friend Dana called me and asked if I wanted to meet her at Ralph's for Italian ices. When it comes to choosing between wallowing and Ralph's ...

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Wallowing

I am still wallowing in my own misery a bit. I have been feeling really sad about Lex. About the loss of the potential of a really good relationship. But I guess that unless both people are looking to fully realize the potential, there is no potential. And so it ...

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Great Friendships

I am feeling extraordinarily happy right now. I had the most wonderful evening, and was reminded of the importance of great friends. My friend Dana called me and asked if I wanted to meet her at Ralph’s for Italian ices. When it comes to choosing between wallowing and Ralph’s (or between Ralph’s and almost anything), Ralph’s wins every time. So although the thought of wallowing in my

Happy Endings Do Exist

This Saturday I went to the wedding I was telling you about.  Well, even the jaded non-believer in me got the romantic warm fuzzies. It was a small intimate wedding of about 100 people. I was really honored to be there. Everything was done tastefully (food included). But most of all, it was one of the happiest weddings I have ever been to. The couple were so much in love that it was

Electronically Dating

There has been a huge amount of activity lately. In fact I am struggling to keep track of all the people I am speaking to.  I feel like I am dating electronically – phone, email, instant message and text. I just haven’t met anyone in person yet. Mostly this is my fault. I have had a major work project with a serious deadline, and have been working

Wallowing

I am still wallowing in my own misery a bit. I have been feeling really sad about Lex. About the loss of the potential of a really good relationship. But I guess that unless both people are looking to fully realize the potential, there is no potential. And so it goes, around and around in my head…

I am still stalking Lex online on and off (ok, more on than off.) This weekend was particularly hard for me because he

Closure

Well, Ladies and Gentlemen, the dam finally broke. I was so consumed with my fantasies that Lex was missing me as much as I was missing him, and with the hopes that he would realize the error of his ways, that I decided to contact him.  I know, I know… Don’t tell me. As my best friend in the world Candy said to me before I contacted him: “some people

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